Monday, December 16, 2013

This article resonated with me......

8 Questions Interracial Couples Are Tired of Hearing

 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/grace-buchele/8-questions-interracial-couples-are-tired-of-hearing_b_4415858.html

Friday, July 1, 2011

Second Edition (2011) - The Interracial Dating Book For Black Women Who Want To Date White Men

Kindle E-Book:
(PC,Kindle,iPhone, iPod Touch, BlackBerry, iPad, Android, Mac)
http://www.Amazon.com/dp/B005AZHR1A

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http://www.Amazon.com/dp/1463678304

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(Publisher)

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This second edition (2011) includes the complete text of the first edition (1999) together with a new chapter about racism on the street, 94,000 words total, trade paperback original format, 6 x 9.

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This book shows Black women how to go about getting involved in interracial relationships and deal with the social pressures that such relationships inevitably attract. It shows how you can clear out your old social conditioning and inhibitions about interracial relationships, tune out the expectations that you should date only Blacks and clarify your reasons for romantic and sexual attraction to White men. This book shows where and how you can go about meeting White men, how to make yourself more interracially approachable, offers guidelines for screening mature and emotionally available White males into your social life and helps you move beyond the shortage of Black men. This book clears away the misconceptions that all too many Black women have about White men and explains what really goes on inside the minds of White men who seek out and date Black women. Women often see men as foreign psychological territory, and racial differences can accentuate such misperceptions and misunderstandings. Black women who have considered the possibilities that interracial relationships offer are all too familiar with the broad spectrum of unspoken taboos and social pressures often serve to block Black women from getting involved in interracial relationships. This book explains the psychosexual origins of the various forms of social opposition to those wearing "the scarlet letter of interracial dating," from the stares interracial couples encounter almost everywhere they go, to why parents work so hard at breaking up the interracial relationships of their offspring to why certain types of disturbed individuals become enraged at the sight of total strangers who happen to be in interracial relationships. Find out how you can best understand, cope with, and tune out, the variety of social pressures that often inhibit Black women from getting, and staying, involved with White men and initiate unembarrassed interracial relationships. This second edition includes the complete text of the first edition together with a new chapter about racism on the street.

Table Of Contents

Chapter One
Why Black Women Should Consider Dating Interracially

Chapter Two
Reprogramming Yourself For Interracial Dating, Part I

Chapter Three
Reprogramming Yourself For Interracial Dating, Part II

Chapter Four
White Male Emotional Availability And Dating Interests

Chapter Five
Ground Rules For Potential Compatibility

Chapter Six
Making Yourself More Approachable, Part I

Chapter Seven
Making Yourself More Approachable, Part II

Chapter Eight
Making Yourself More Approachable, Part III

Chapter Nine
Where And How To Meet White Men, Part I

Chapter Ten
Where And How To Meet White Men, Part II

Chapter Eleven
Mistakes To Avoid

Chapter Twelve
The Scarlet Letter Of Interracial Dating, Part I

Chapter Thirteen
The Scarlet Letter Of Interracial Dating, Part II

Chapter Fourteen
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part I

Chapter Fifteen
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part II

Chapter Sixteen
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part III

Chapter Seventeen
Racism On The Street

Chapter Eighteen
Motivating Yourself

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Second Edition (2011): The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women

Kindle E-Book:
(PC,Kindle,iPhone, iPod Touch, BlackBerry, iPad, Android, Mac)
http://www.Amazon.com/dp/B005BHQVSW

Trade Paperback:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/1463696418
https://www.Createspace.com/3648086 (Publisher)

Read Excerpts Online:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/1463696418

Lulu.com (Print + PDF)
- click on "Preview" to read excerpts
http://www.lulu.com/product/file-download/the-white-man%E2%80%99s-guide-to-dating-black-women-second-edition/16313939

"If you're a White man interested in dating Black women, this book shows you how to make it happen. Learn how Black women think, what they like and don't like to see in White men, and where and how to go about meeting them. Find out how to cope with public reaction to interracial couples, learn how to counteract the psychological inhibitions that can hold you back from getting involved and understand why those who oppose interracial relationships feel compelled to think and act the way they do. Find out what works and get involved. "

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

E-Books -The Interracial Dating Book For Black Women & The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women

The Interracial Dating Book For Black Women
E-Book (2011), Second Edition, 90,000 words

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005AZHR1A/

This book shows Black women how to go about getting involved in interracial relationships and deal with the social pressures that such relationships inevitably attract. It shows how you can clear out your old social conditioning and inhibitions about interracial relationships, tune out the expectations that you should date only Blacks and clarify your reasons for romantic and sexual attraction to White men. This book shows where and how you can go about meeting White men, how to make yourself more interracially approachable, offers guidelines for screening mature and emotionally available White males into your social life and helps you move beyond the shortage of Black men. This book clears away the misconceptions that all too many Black women have about White men and explains what really goes on inside the minds of White men who seek out and date Black women. Women often see men as foreign psychological territory, and racial differences can accentuate such misperceptions and misunderstandings. Black women who have considered the possibilities that interracial relationships offer are all too familiar with the broad spectrum of unspoken taboos and social pressures often serve to block Black women from getting involved in interracial relationships. This book explains the psychosexual origins of the various forms of social opposition to those wearing "the scarlet letter of interracial dating," from the stares interracial couples encounter almost everywhere they go, to why parents work so hard at breaking up the interracial relationships of their offspring to why certain types of disturbed individuals become enraged at the sight of total strangers who happen to be in interracial relationships. Find out how you can best understand, cope with, and tune out, the variety of social pressures that often inhibit Black women from getting, and staying, involved with White men and initiate unembarrassed interracial relationships.

Table Of Contents

1/Why Black Women Should Consider Dating Interracially

2/Reprogramming Yourself For Interracial Dating, Part I

3/Reprogramming Yourself For Interracial Dating, Part II

4/White Male Emotional Availability And Dating Interests

5/Ground Rules For Potential Compatibility

6/Making Yourself More Approachable, Part I

7/Making Yourself More Approachable, Part II

8/Making Yourself More Approachable, Part III

9/Where And How To Meet White Men, Part I

10/Where And How To Meet White Men, Part II

11/Mistakes To Avoid

12/The Scarlet Letter Of Interracial Dating, Part I

13/The Scarlet Letter Of Interracial Dating, Part II

14/Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part I

15/Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part II

16/Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part III

17/Motivating Yourself

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The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women

E-Book(2011), Second Edition, 51,000 words

http://www.Amazon.com/dp/B005BHQVSW/

If you’re a White man interested in dating Black women, this book shows you how to make it happen. Learn about how Black women think, what they like and don’t like to see in White men, and where and how to go about initiating relationships with Black women. Find out how to cope with public reaction to interracial couples, and learn how to counteract the psychological inhibitions that can hold you back from getting involved. Learn about the true nature of the opposition to interracial relationships and get started meeting and dating Black women. Find out what works and get involved.


Table Of Contents

Chapter One
Your Taste For Black Women

Chapter Two
Individuality And Interracial Relationships

Chapter Three
Coping With Public Reaction

Chapter Four
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part I

Chapter Five
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part II

Chapter Six
Understanding The Opposition To Interracial Relationships, Part III

Chapter Seven
Getting Ready To Meet Black Women

Chapter Eight
Meeting And Dating Black Women


Thursday, October 1, 2009

Tenth Anniversary - " The Interracial Dating Book for Black Women Who Want to Date White Men"

October 1 is the tenth anniversary of this book that showed Black women how to get involved with White men,it was released on October 1, 1999.

The Interracial Dating Book for Black Women Who Want to Date White Men
SECOND EDITION (2011)

TRADE PAPERBACK:
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KINDLE E-BOOK (2011)
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Thursday, September 25, 2008

Does A Bad Economy Impact Interracial Relationships?

If anybody sees any sort of impact from the steadily worsening economy on interracial relationships, feel free to post whatever you know of on this blog. By "impact" I am referring to two things: do you see any sort of reluctance on the part of either Whites or Blacks to "stick their neck out" by getting involved with someone of another race, because times are getting tough, as well as whether you see (or hear about?) that there is any sort of increased social pressure, explicit or implicit, to stick to members of your own race, possibly promulgated by family members? It would come as no surprise to hear that certain types of men with a less-than-minimal attachment to the labor force might be pressuring women of their own race to socialize only within their own race and telling those women bestow a large portion fo their paychecks on those stay-at-home gentlemen of leisure.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Books By Other Writers About Interracial Relationships

Don't Bring Home a White Boy: And Other Notions that Keep Black Women From Dating Out, by Karyn Langhorne Folan
http://www.amazon.com/dp/1439154759/

Interracial Marriages Between Black Women and White Men, by Cheryl Judice
http://www.amazon.com/dp/1604975776/


Sex and Racism In America

by Calvin C. Hernton
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Racism-America-Calvin-Hernton/dp/0385424337/ref=sr_1_22?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215106675&sr=1-22

Sex and Race: Why White and Black Mix in Spite of Opposition
by J. A. Rogers [Joel Augustus Rogers]
http://www.amazon.com/Race-White-Black-Spite-Opposition/dp/0960229426/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215106760&sr=1-2

Black and White Mixed Marriages: An Ethnographic Study of Black-White Families
by Ernest Porterfield
http://www.amazon.com/Black-White-Mixed-Marriages-Ethnographic/dp/0882294849/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215106852&sr=1-1

The Race Card: How Bluffing About Bias Makes Race Relations Worse by Richard Thompson Ford
http://www.amazon.com/Race-Card-Bluffing-About-Relations/dp/0374245754/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215106945&sr=1-1

Black Women Deserve Better
CW
http://www.amazon.com/Black-Women-Deserve-Better-C/dp/1432721038/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1226165425&sr=8-1

Working-Class White: The Making and Unmaking of Race Relations
Monica McDermott
http://www.amazon.com/Working-Class-White-Making-Unmaking-Relations/dp/0520248090/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1229641984&sr=8-1

Monday, January 28, 2008

"Why Black Women Are Doing The White Thing" - Interview

Interview About Interracial Relationships With A British Newspaper, The Voice

I was interviewed by the Voice, a British newspaper based in London, as part of an article about interracial dating and relationships. The article, "Why Black Women Are Doing The White Thing," was written by Janelle Oswald, and appeared in The Voice newspaper's January 28, 2008 issue. It appeared in both the print and online editions.

“Race is becoming less of a deal in dating. People want to explore their choices,” says Adam White, author of The Interracial Dating Book for Black Women Who Want to Date White Men and The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women.................."

You can read the complete article at The Voice's web site:

http://www.voice-online.co.uk/content.php?show=12808


Second Edition (2011)


TRADE PAPERBACK:
http://www.Amazon.com/dp/1463678304

KINDLE E-Book:
http://www.Amazon.com/dp/B005AZHR1A